Let go of expectations—embrace the beautiful, messy, vibrant truth of your child.
When Nancy Manet became a parent, she was told her child should grow like a “tulip in a pot”—neat, safe, predictable. But life had a different plan. This heartwarming and visually stunning children’s book follows one parent's joyful journey of learning to let go and celebrate the wildflowers before them.
Told in lyrical, affirming couplets and illustrated in rich watercolor and cut-paper collage by Michelle Buvala, You Are Not a Tulip in a Pot encourages parents and caregivers to release rigid expectations and embrace children for who they truly are. This book is an invitation—not a lecture—to listen, to grow, and to love more freely.
Perfect for parents, teachers, and anyone who loves a child who breaks the mold.
A gentle, affirming message for young children
Inclusive and emotionally rich story
Lush, layered illustrations that celebrate freedom and individuality
Some said you should be a tulip in a pot… but you, my child, are a field of wildflowers.
Add this book to your home or classroom library today—and celebrate the wild, wonderful journey of growing up and growing together.
